unpopular opinion

so when miley gets on stage and emanates her sexuality she’s criticised (I was one of them) but when Beyonce does the exact same, she is owning it and such a role model. don’t get me wrong, i love queen bey and i understand that people look at it differently because her and jay-z are happily married, and it’s a good thing to show such an attraction to each other. it just bothers me a little that she gets on stage and shows off this new body and the importance of sex down our throats.

i know that this is because of my own insecurities and i am projecting them onto her. i just feel personally victimised when i hear her calling herself “Mrs Carter” opposed to “Independent Woman” and showing off a thigh gap. (once again, insecurities). Like, I always admired Beyonce because she would stand against all current assumption of what a female would have to look like and would have to do. 

look, it’s great she is being healthy and is happy in her marriage. and i am a major fan of her and her efforts for feminism.  i just am curious if it’s hypocritical to call one woman a whore and the other an inspiration.